Sole Mate

What exactly is a soulmate? Do you truly believe they exist? Who is your soulmate? Are you with your soulmate? If so... how do you know? If not... and you know who they are... why aren't you together? If not.. and you don't know who they are... well.. nevermind 'cause you can't predict the unknown.

Anyway... I question whether there is a such thing as a soulmate. I believe God has someone intended for me.. but does that mean they are my soulmate? What is the definition of a soulmate?

According to Websters Dictionary:

1. a person who is perfectly suited to another in temperament

Mmmmm WTF is THAT supposed to mean???

So because I am seriously wondering what da hell a soulmate really is... I decided to go to Urban Dictionary to get a much needed laugh.. in order to break this seriousness-questioning-moment down into a fun learning lesson. To my surprise... Urban Dictionary actually gave me a VERY good answer. In fact, there were SEVERAL good answers by people explaining what a soulmate is. This one was my favorite:

A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet -- a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before. As this connection develops over time, you experience a love so deep, strong and complex, that you begin to doubt that you have ever truly loved anyone prior. Your soulmate understands and connects with you in every way and on every level, which brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them. And when you are not around them, you are all that much more aware of the harshness of life, and how bonding with another person in this way is the most significant and satisfying thing you will experience in your lifetime. You are also all that much aware of the beauty in life, because you have been given a great gift and will always be thankful.

Can we say WOW. I completely agree. I can actually relate to this definition and it is cuh-RAY-zee. Now don't get me wrong, I have not experienced the love portion just yet... it ain't been that deep yet folks! I am at the very beginning phase of experiencing what a soulmate is. There are several things in this definition that I completely relate to: "you are drawn to them in a way you have never experienced before".. "brings a sense of peace, calmness and happiness when you are around them".. and "you have been given a great gift and will always be thankful."

According to Urban Dictionary... I believe I may have met my soulmate. According to Webster's Dictionary, I have a whole lotta soulmates running around lol. I think I relate to a lot of people in temperament.. but what is it that would make any ONE person unique??? C'mon Webster... get it tuh-getha.

Any hoo... so back to my soulmate... so I guess my question is.. if the feeling of a "soulmate" is only coming from one person... does that mean the other person is NOT their soulmate? I have no idea if the other person is thinking the same thing I am... but then again... if they are truly my soulmate, then I guess they WOULD be thinking the same thing. Hmmmmmmmmmm

What makes THIS person so damn special? Why HIM and not another? What if I am wrong... THEN what? Will the true one still be around.. I guess so because there is supposedly only one soulmate... a SOLE mate.

I hope you do realize that I can go back and forth on this topic forever lol... that's exactly why I entitled it sole mate. 'Cause I'ma analyze the shit out of my soulmate and end up by my DAMN self! a true SOLE MATE. smh. I have issues... I know... going to bed. GNITE!