You can't hold on forever. Eventually you will have to let go. Is there a time limit to holding on to something/someone? I don't think so. Everyone's time limit is different. I used to think I could put a time to things... like I'm going to do this, that and this by this age or by this date. I was going to give myself so many days/weeks to lose weight. I thought I would be married by this age (surpassed that WAY early), would have this many kids or live in this place or that place by a certain amount of time.
I definitely think it is possible to do ANYTHING with prayer and perseverance... but you can't guarantee when it will happen. I stopped putting a time limit on my life. I know when I'm ready for something, and the time is right, and I know when I'm over something and it's time to move on. I routinely clean out my closet. Literally. I wear the hell out of my clothes because I really like them, but at the same time, I know when it's time to donate some stuff or Goodwill or to trash it all together.
I think I take the same route when it comes to my life. Some things I am quick to move on from and others I tend to hold on for what seems to be forever. I hold on because I'm not ready to let go. It's a pretty simple concept. You see it all the time with things like addictions or weight loss. You can't make a lifestyle change... if you're not ready to change.
I've changed a lot. Some things just aren't as important to me as before... and some things are VERY important to me now... that weren't before. I don't think my change has been bad. I think it has been very eye opening. I used to live for "what's going to be" more than "what's happening". Make sense? I have this idea of what I want my life to be like... which I don't think is wrong... but I wasn't paying attention to my "now." What is going on in my "now" cannot get me to where I want to be. So I have to really pay attention to my now... to assure I am on my way to my vision. When you pay attention to your "now" you either appreciate it and enjoy it, or realize it's harmful or a deterrent and you have to make a change. I used to dread change... but now I enjoy it because I know I am making a change for the better... at least better for me.
Holding onto negativity will hold you up from prosperity.
I don't know... thoughts of the day I guess.
