Seeing Blindly

I am a woman who tends to see what i WANT to see... at first. I always say I have been blessed with incredible instincts.. which to me.. seem like a blessing and a curse. I love to look for the good, the love, the best... in a person. However, my instincts always tell me when there are negative things I need to be paying attention to.

I'm sure you've assumed this blog is about a man. Yup. But it's about several men, not just one in particular. However, one in particular was the needle that tipped the haystack and led me to write this blog. I can feel when something is not right. I just can. Don't know why... but I can. I may not know WHAT is not right, but I know when there is something that is off.

I recently wrote about a soul-mate... or being a sole mate.. any hoo.... so yea.. i was WRONG lol At least about the soul-mate. I will probably continue being a sole mate for a good lil while if I keep spending my time with men who do not know how to tell the truth.

So I titled this "seeing blindly". I can see what is right in front of me, but I choose to be blind when something bad begins to present itself. Make sense? I know... this is not a good thing. However, I admit that I do this, but I have also recognized when I do it and am able to stop before i REALLY get myself into trouble. The crazy part is, is that I witness so many other women who see blindly everyday. For me.... seeing blindly drives me CRAZY, but I also understand and have been in their position. I'm just glad I'm not in their position anymore.

So today, I challenge you to truly open your eyes. (Tip: prayer. Ask God to open your eyes cause you're probably going to be reluctant to do so on your own.) Really open your eyes. Open your heart. What do you truly see?? What do you truly feel?? Are you ignoring what you hear/feel? Are you choosing to be blind to what you see? This is not an easy task. It may take doing this... many many many times until you are able to unconsciously do so. However, when you do... you'll experience a very bitter sweet moment, that comes with a lot of clarity.

Clarity/closure is what we want right? You can only see clearly if your eyes are open.